Is clinging to a man who has clearly shown he doesn’t care the most degrading thing a woman can do after a breakup?

You’ve seen his true colors—his indifference, his neglect, and how he mocks instead of providing the support you need. The main themes of your interactions have become coldness, superficiality, and blame, and the affection he once showed is long gone.

What are you really holding onto? Are you haunted by the loss of what you’ve invested—your time, your emotions, your youth? Continuing to hope he will change is self-delusion. You’re trapped in self-pity, unable to move forward.

The truth is harsh: if he were ever going to change driven by guilt or conscience, it would have happened by now. The fact that it hasn’t is the clearest indication of his real intentions. Why continue to devalue yourself by giving your best to someone who doesn’t see your worth? You’re not just trying to salvage a doomed relationship; you’re losing yourself, becoming a puppet in his hands.

Your efforts to love should lead to happiness, not extend your suffering. It’s time to step out of the past, reclaim your worth, and stop being manipulated by false promises of love that no longer exist.

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